acdcno1
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She's not a good friend 2 me?Ok...
i used to hang about with other people at school but they left..before xmas hols..
I am left with this girl i have always known (since 1st year)..
we were ok hanging around together for a long time, but now i just think she's not interested in me lol (not in that way!!).. i feel invisible half the time
I see her at lunch and we have lunch togetha..i don't thoughh lol so when she's eating i have to just sit watching her! Not that it makes me hungry lol, i'd rather starv! than eat food from skool lol...
One reason y i think she's not a gd friend iz that if i gav e her money..say £1 for fags lol, i would never btw!!, she would not EVER give me like 50p for my bus if i evr lost my money lol...i NEVER lose my money (mainly cos i kno she'd not give me any money) lol. I am too good at giving my friends stuff e.g money just to make me happy..like if sum1 couldn't cum out cos they were skint lol and i wanted thm to !!! Apparently i'm like my dad in that way lol..he gave his 'pals' money to go on holiday!
...anyway i just don't want her taking advantage!!:@
Right, i kno you are sck of reading this now, but.....
I DON'T EVEN LYK THE GIRL!!!...
plz don't think i'm being nasty but we have nothing in common, we never see each other outside of skool and I KNO when she leaves for college she'll never bother talking to me again =[
...And if you would say I should bother trying to meet her or phone her then i wouldnt evn want to =[
Is it my fault i just don't like her?!
IS she really a good friend?
[[ANY reply would be kl because this has been on my mind for a long time and i just can't go on =[
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Julie
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Hm, doesn't sound like much of a friendship to me. I think we have different levels of friendship with people and she's not much above an "acquaintance." I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as she doesn't continually take advantage of your giving nature. And there's no reason why you need to have a relationship outside of school either. I had a lot of people over the years that I was "friends" with just in school. They're fun to pass the time with when you have the commonality of the school you're at, but beyond that they're nothing important to you. It's not your fault you don't like her and you don't have to like her to just kill time with her.  Hope that makes sense and doesn't sound too mean.
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