Please Help :(

phobic18 · Joined: 20 Jul 2009 Posts: 16 Location: UK

I had a bf of 3 years and weve had our ups and downs
i broke up with him lately because we dont spend alot of time tgether due to my phobia of being sick its stops me from drinking and i wont stop at his house anymore because of it

we used to be great but felt because we didnt see each other alot it was unfair on him

his mum HATES me as 4 years ago i went out with his brother for a few months

also, should i just have a fresh start as i cheated on him 3 time (AWFUL) i know as when he cheated i went off the rails and drank constantly and ended up making alot of mistakes but thats under control now

but should i get back with him? he doesnt know that i cheated and i couldnt tell him i dont want to hurt him as i love him but should i get back with him and remain quiet but run the risk of him finding out?

or be single?

help please!! xxx

dragonfly · Joined: 21 Aug 2007 Posts: 1133 Location: South Wales

I would move on, too much water under the bridge will alway cause future problems and end up being in a destructive relationship.

But ultimatly, its your desicion.... xxxx
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phobic18 · Joined: 20 Jul 2009 Posts: 16 Location: UK

Thanks :)

Ive decided not to get back with him 2 much had happened and we'll never really trust each other properly again :)

xxx